Why our media is so negetive?

                       Here im trying to explain why our media is so negative. As we all know if we open news paper and T.V , we can see bombardments, chaos, violence, cruelty etc. Good news are buried among bad news. We can't blame our media for this. Because they are not responsible for these incidents. They are showing us whats happening around the world. If we look at one side, we can see that our media is a little bit good. At the same time media is a little bit negative. Peoples are interested in reading violence news. We have to consider the positive incidents tha happening in our world. Media have to put these news in important areas of news paper or important news programmes. By doing that peoples mind get fresh and the obsession about the violent news's. At the same time they have to try to add violent news where peoples look goes. News papers or news channels know that people likes chaos,violence etc. to read or watch. It may also be considered as a business trick to attract people towards their news paper or channel. And also they getting plenty of violent news day by day. Then how can they silent towards this news. .



Imagine a world without medias. How pathetic would be our world. We would unaware of violences happening around the world. Medias are helpful in a way that they give awarness of the bad ndws around the world. But it alone will dirty our mind. So medias mus take care in adding good news in necessary areas. For the reason of business success, don't burry good motivating news among violent news. If medias give more importance or consideration to good news, the nation like India can build up people's mind, refresh peoples mind, can reduce the violence's and can bring India like nations into a developed country.





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Do true love really exist? Why Love marriages or Love become a failure?

                      

                      As we all know that love is the meaning of life. Love is the eternal property of living things. Love is divine. Love is something that we can only feel by heart. It's the only thing that keeps the world together. Love is the essence of life. But why does it fails ?

We all are eager to know about our soul mate. Some will find it early. Some will have to wait for a long time..
Most of the youngers are aware of their soul mate as they keeping a love for the dear ones in their heart they find. But at the end of the love journey they lost their dear ones. It may be due to different kind of reasons. May be the situations letting them to give up. Teens are not well aware of what is life. They can't figure out it at their stage of life. They get crushes, then it leads to love. They think that its very easy to live with our dear ones. Lovers make dreams from their own sensational world. They think they can. But when they grow up further, they start to taste the bitterness of life. They will start to figure out what is life. How hard it is. They realize that their thinking's are not independent. It depends on a lot of factors and they should have to consider all those things. They think about their religion, caste, parents view, their status in social life, their relatives etc. Then they think that the path ahead is not easy, life is tough..

Most of the lovers realize that it is not easy to own their lover. To this situation most of them give up.
They start to blame on the factors against them. They blame their parents, religion etc. They start to think that if there were no religions, no status issues. They really feels like they can't live without their loved ones. But they have to. Some of them never give up. Whatever happens, they move forward. They marriage them without parents or relatives presence.. Arrange marriage. From that time troubles start to hunt them. Their life will become getting tough and tough. They find out the world is so cruel. They challenge their life. They own it their lover from any kind of tough situations. Parents start to hate them, Neighbours start to gossip them, relatives start to reject them, peoples start to laugh at them. They live their life in their little world without considering their parents and all others whose are against them. But after a long run of life they figure out their parents were correct. Problems start to arise. One's behavior become irritating for other. Ones likings become hating for others. They start to recognize the hidden parts of life. They both can't adjust each other. Sweet talking become rough words. They start to hate each other. Then the next step would be probably divorce. Girl back their home and boy also..

Why is it happening? Love is eternal, then how it happens?
The main reason for this is the lack of understanding. They failed to figure out each other when they were in love.. Their love were driven only by the feelings of their heart....not by the feelings of their mind.. This kind of love has always this kind of endings..that is for sure.. Their are still peoples whose are living happily after their love marriage.. Their love can be considered as true love. We can't teach what is true love.. It must be felt.. It comes from our heart and stay eternally in our mind. Their are a lot of people having one side love. Their is no meaning in it and they should tell them that they love them. Otherwise it will be another kind of failure in life. If they refuse, their is no meaning in following them for same matter. It is useless. It spoils your life. Getting our soul mate in advance is a difficult task. It is very difficult to define what is true love.. One thing is sure that true happens once in a life time and all other love except this end up in failures.. We have to give chance to our mind to take a decision. It would be a tough and bitterful task. Because most of the true lovers doesn't care about it.. They don't care about religions, status etc. If their love is true they will surely succeed in their life. Love marriage is a bit better than arrange marriage. The difference between these two are in love marriage we have to face our problems, in arrange marriage our parents will be their to help us in facing the problems. However the religion, caste etc. are the main hinder of lovers. Even sometimes all of us would have cursed this religion, caste etc. Anyway we have to believe that true love really exists in this world. That is eternal, divine, heart to heart, and something that words can't explain and finally true love become a success..


An " I love you" in true love means a lot.....




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"INFLUENCE OF SOCIAL NETWORKING IN DAILY LIFE"

                      Here im attempting to tell the influence of social networking in our daily life and its consequences..
As we know that today most of the peoples are obsessed with social networking sites such as Orkut, Facebook ,HI5, Myspace etc. Some of us are addicted to it! It is not a fault, because the way social networking treat us is the way we want. Millions of people are part of it. During vacations and free time, the best way to not get bore is connecting with your friends and social networking making this task easy. Students, Young people, Old people and even small kids are part of social networking. Even though free software developer Richard stallman had said Facebook is a malware, people are not considering his opinion and moving forward. Social Networking can be good and at the same time bad. Its very simple to connect with our friends. We can chat, scrap, message, call, share our photos, videos, interests etc. No need to go to their house and see them really. The things u want to connect with them is a computer and internet connection. It is differ from our real world communication in the way that we get more privacy, freedom, places to express our interests, No physical threatenings, and no need to pretend in our communication. Many Social Networking comes with a lot of new features. In our lightning speed life we may not be able to connect with our old friends, relatives etc. The Social networking sites let these needs to come true. Anyway it has some bad effects also. The first thing is that it is time consuming. It spoils a lot of our time. If we calculate the time, a man spend for Social Networking in a year, we can see that the time we calculated is greater than the time he spend for good things. As we all know that time is a valuable thing. Now im going to explain the advantages and disadvantages of Social Networking by point by point.

¤" ADVANTAGES "¤

1) Social networking sites are very useful for connecting with friends and relatives.

2) We can have chatting, calling etc with friends.

3) It is easy way to enjoy free time!

4) Safety in communication, no physical threatenings.

5) Can express ourself freely.

6) More privacy in communication.

7) Communication become interesting with features like group chat, sharing photos and videos etc.

8) No need to travel long to see your dear ones, all we need is a computer and internet connection.

9) Video chatting enables us to chat with them by seeing them.

10) We can ignore or protect a particular person whom we hate.

¤" DISADVANTAGES"¤

1) Time consuming. Lost a lot of time.

2) Can't trust anyone with their words only. We need to keep a limit with them.

3) All profiles are not real. Males may act as Females and Females may act as males. Fake profiles fools us.

4) Friendships are not lasting. If the site we use for social networking gets bug error or virus infection we may even can't access our accounts. This will cause to miss our friends.

5) The privacy for our photos are not trustable. Anyone can misuse our photos. Girls should be careful in uploading their photos in social networking sites.

6) Our account's security is not trustable. Because our account may any time hacked.

7) Students obsessed with social networking won't find time to study. They stuck with it.

8) Cheating will happen. If we trust a person in social networking sites highly, the person may disappoint you and his/her account may be fake. Crushes will bring about love failures and his/her life may worry about thinking these incidents.

9) If the computer or Internet connection has any problem occurred, we can't connect with them until the problem is solved.

10) We cant use these sites in some countries as they banned such websites.



Ok, now lets move on to the conclusion.
Social Networking is useful and good and at the same time useless and bad. It depends on how we using it. If we use it sensibly it will be good. If we use it with bad sense, it will be worst.





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