We all are eager to know about our soul mate. Some will find it early. Some will have to wait for a long time..
Most of the youngers are aware of their soul mate as they keeping a love for the dear ones in their heart they find. But at the end of the love journey they lost their dear ones. It may be due to different kind of reasons. May be the situations letting them to give up. Teens are not well aware of what is life. They can't figure out it at their stage of life. They get crushes, then it leads to love. They think that its very easy to live with our dear ones. Lovers make dreams from their own sensational world. They think they can. But when they grow up further, they start to taste the bitterness of life. They will start to figure out what is life. How hard it is. They realize that their thinking's are not independent. It depends on a lot of factors and they should have to consider all those things. They think about their religion, caste, parents view, their status in social life, their relatives etc. Then they think that the path ahead is not easy, life is tough..
Most of the lovers realize that it is not easy to own their lover. To this situation most of them give up.
They start to blame on the factors against them. They blame their parents, religion etc. They start to think that if there were no religions, no status issues. They really feels like they can't live without their loved ones. But they have to. Some of them never give up. Whatever happens, they move forward. They marriage them without parents or relatives presence.. Arrange marriage. From that time troubles start to hunt them. Their life will become getting tough and tough. They find out the world is so cruel. They challenge their life. They own it their lover from any kind of tough situations. Parents start to hate them, Neighbours start to gossip them, relatives start to reject them, peoples start to laugh at them. They live their life in their little world without considering their parents and all others whose are against them. But after a long run of life they figure out their parents were correct. Problems start to arise. One's behavior become irritating for other. Ones likings become hating for others. They start to recognize the hidden parts of life. They both can't adjust each other. Sweet talking become rough words. They start to hate each other. Then the next step would be probably divorce. Girl back their home and boy also..
Why is it happening? Love is eternal, then how it happens?
The main reason for this is the lack of understanding. They failed to figure out each other when they were in love.. Their love were driven only by the feelings of their heart....not by the feelings of their mind.. This kind of love has always this kind of endings..that is for sure.. Their are still peoples whose are living happily after their love marriage.. Their love can be considered as true love. We can't teach what is true love.. It must be felt.. It comes from our heart and stay eternally in our mind. Their are a lot of people having one side love. Their is no meaning in it and they should tell them that they love them. Otherwise it will be another kind of failure in life. If they refuse, their is no meaning in following them for same matter. It is useless. It spoils your life. Getting our soul mate in advance is a difficult task. It is very difficult to define what is true love.. One thing is sure that true happens once in a life time and all other love except this end up in failures.. We have to give chance to our mind to take a decision. It would be a tough and bitterful task. Because most of the true lovers doesn't care about it.. They don't care about religions, status etc. If their love is true they will surely succeed in their life. Love marriage is a bit better than arrange marriage. The difference between these two are in love marriage we have to face our problems, in arrange marriage our parents will be their to help us in facing the problems. However the religion, caste etc. are the main hinder of lovers. Even sometimes all of us would have cursed this religion, caste etc. Anyway we have to believe that true love really exists in this world. That is eternal, divine, heart to heart, and something that words can't explain and finally true love become a success..
An " I love you" in true love means a lot.....
Thank you for reading....... :-)
gudd!
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